Death
I have finally returned and I apologize for my long absence.
Now, onto my post. Recently the subject of death and dying came across my mind. Not that I am suicidal or anything. Its just that I’ve seen people dying and then theres people mourning for them and yes, I agree mourning is necessary for the lost of a loved one but let it be for a brief moment. Let celebration follow for the awakening and freedom of the soul (or whatever you wanna call it) from the bondage of society and the ego. Why can’t funerals be fun? Wouldn’t that be nice?
While I’m at it, why do people fear death, why cling on to the meat we’re in when so much more awaits after death. This post is in no way promoting you to kill yourself.
I hope I can keep up with the regular posting O.o
Kar
Picking Up
I apologize for my long absence once again. If only someone else will keep this blog alive. *looks at Kar*
Now some of you may know that I have quite a bit to say about pick up (or approaching girls). After all, my path to enlightenment started with me reading about pick up.
After these few years, I have learnt much about pick up and more importantly, about myself. Learning pick up has a lot more to do with facing myself than learning techniques/tricks/lines/openers etc. This is what I call inner game.
The purpose of this post is to share with you guys my latest satori. After an incident involving a guy from my NS unit using my name/reputation to approach a waitress claiming that I was the one who want her email (who in the blue hell wants a girl’s email anyway? It takes a lot more than words on my screen to turn me on), I came to realize the root cause of an inability to pick up.
The word is once again… Ego.
The only reason any human being will have any problem approaching another human being is the Ego. The idea that we are seperate. That somehow You are You and I am I.
More importantly, it is the unquestioned assumption that if you are rejected, you are somehow less than before you approached. Or that you are somehow more than who you were before the approach if the girl is receptive to you. This is all Ego-identity.
Only the Ego see things in terms of ‘more than’ or ‘less than’. This is why I say Singapore is an ego-centric Hell. Everybody labels everyone else and puts them either into the “he/she is less than me” or the “he/she is more than me” categories. If you were to just examine closely, you’ll realize that most Singaporeans spent most of their lives accumulating things so that they can feel more than the others.
That is the unconsciousness of humanity.
This post is coming to an abrupt end. 
